Giving Thanks – A Good Thing to Do No Matter the Date!

A package arrived today…10 copies of the 2012-2013 Slingshot Guide – the Zagat-like guide to the 50 most innovative non-profits in the Jewish community.  On page 31 is the most beautiful description of Matan’s work from the perspective of the evaluators: “Matan is poised to have a real systemic impact with its new strategies and programs.  Another evaluator praises Matan’s breadth of programs that are tailored to address a void in the Jewish community with skill and diligence.”  As wonderful as these words are, we could not have done it without you – parents, practitioners, and caring people who remind us that though we have made strides as a community, we still have a ways to go.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.

The Bigger Picture

Written by Meredith Polsky, Matan co-founder

It has been a challenging week in the world of Jewish Special Education, as news of a blind camper asked to leave Camp Ramah in Canada spread at lightening speed over social media and other outlets.  Though Matan has been following these events from the first moment we learned of them, we hesitated to make a statement (or spread the story even more widely) until we could hear “another side”, or until some resolution was reached.  We will never know exactly what led to this unfortunate series of events, but as a Jewish Special Education organization that has seen families suffer time and time again, we would like to offer some thoughts.

What we have seen over the past four days is that this is not solely about one child.  The outrage that many people expressed online, while certainly out of support for one family and their child, has much more to do with the growing sentiment that the Jewish community has not yet reached its potential in how we include all individuals in our Jewish institutions.  That one father was able to garner so much support in such a short time is a testament to just how many in our extended Jewish community want to see change.  While addressing special needs in the Jewish world has long been the work of a relatively small number of people, we now see that even those not “directly” affected by disabilities are taking a stand towards ensuring every child his/her birthright – a Jewish education and fair access to the Jewish community. That in and of itself is a step in a very positive direction.

On a daily basis, Matan works to educate, empower and advocate on behalf of Jewish children with special needs and their families.  In the twelve years since Matan’s inception we have learned that it really does take all three.  By truly recognizing the responsibility we have to be partners with parents and families, much of what happened at Camp Ramah last week could have been prevented.  We do believe that staffs at Ramah camps across North America are well-intentioned and aim to accommodate and include.  We also know that it takes more than one person to succeed or fail in these arenas.  It takes an entire community – layleaders, professionals, funders and families with and without children with special needs – to support a mission that is grounded in a firm commitment to inclusion.  It cannot and should not be about who is at the helm at any particular moment, but about the dedication of an entire Jewish community that expects our leaders to educate, empower and advocate – and where leaders are supported in that work.

We cannot expect to get it right the first time, every time. We can expect open and honest dialogue that includes families and their children.  We must expect those in our broader community to care about inclusion whether or not a child’s parents have the wherewithal and the forum to generate support wide enough to reverse initial decisions.   And while we wish no family or child would ever have to experience exclusion from the Jewish community, it is our moral mandate to learn from those that have been scorned and continue to work towards a meaningfully inclusive Jewish community.

 

 

Special Needs and the Jewish Community

Written by Leah Krakinowski
Originally published as the cover story in the New Jersey Jewish Standard, February 17, 2012

More than 13.5 million children under the age of 18 in the United States have special health care needs, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. That translates into nearly one in every five households with at least one child requiring costly specialized education, medical care and related services.

These children’s needs may range from such chronic medical illnesses as diabetes or cerebral palsy, to such emotional or behavioral health problems as autism, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), sensory impairments, or learning disabilities.

The ratio of special-needs children in Jewish households is likely no higher than the national average. However, the financial stakes and personal sacrifices can be far greater for parents wrestling with ways to provide their children with a suitable educational and social environment within a Jewish communal framework.

In effect, Jewish parents of special-needs children often face a trifecta of battles: with school districts, health insurance companies, and their own ability to pay yeshivah or day school tuitions. (Read more…)

Check out these Jewish Community Heroes!

For the third consecutive year, The Jewish Federations of North America have launched the Jewish Community Hero of the Year campaign. The Jewish Community Hero of the Year selected through the Jewish Community Heroes campaign receives a $25,000 grant from The Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) to be used as an investment in his/her community project or non-profit effort. Additionally, the four remaining finalists will each receive a $1,000 grant, and the Federation Hero of the Year will receive a $5,000 grant.

As we were reading about this years nominees, we were thrilled and inspired by the large number of nominees who are working towards a more inclusive community for individuals with special needs.  Please read more about them at Jewish Community Heroes and cast your vote!  Congratulations to these nominees:

Daniel Grossman, Lawrenceville, NJ
Sandy Keshen, Toronto, Ontario
Shana Erenberg, Chicago, IL
Jayne Medoff Smith, Staten Island, NY
Rabbi Reeve Brenner, Rockville, MD
Eliezer Goldstock, Brooklyn, NY
Brian Wasser, Hyannis, MA
Gary Moskowitz, New York, NY
Judy Love, Cherry Hill, NJ
Janice Patterson, Oak Park, IL
Jenine Shwekey, Long Branch, NJ
Sheri Blank, Encino, CA
Karen Gordon, Shreveport, LA
Helaine Dominguez, Brooklyn, NY

Matan on JDeal!

Matan is thrilled to partner with Jdeal NY to offer this amazing deal on Rosh Hashanah cards! With an $18 donation to Matan, we will send you 10 beautiful Rosh Hashanah cards.  These cards will have all of Matan’s information on the back, so your friends and family will know you are supporting important work in the Jewish community.  To take advantage of this deal, you MUST make your donation to Matan using Jdeal NY!  Note: Cards purchased through Jdeal will not be personalized.

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A Picture Worth Much More than 1,000 Words

Artwork by Jennifer Levine

When Jennifer Levine was given the opportunity to participate in a three-year Leadership Institute for supplementary school education directors, she felt both honored and hesitant.   A joint program of Hebrew Union College and the Jewish Theological Seminary, and funded by UJA-Federation of New York, this Institute had the potential to strengthen her professional skills and provide an important cohort for her in the Jewish community.  It also, however, had the potential to bring back familiar feelings of frustration from other Jewish conferences she had attended.

 

Jennifer Levine, a prominent Education Director at Temple Emanu-El in Closter, New Jersey, has Dyslexia.  The frontal learning experiences typical of conferences, where an expert in the field lectures to a large group of people, doesn’t work for her.  And while in the past she may have agreed to the Leadership Institute and suffered in silence as she desperately tried to retain any semblance of meaning from the lectures, this time Jennifer struck a deal.  She met with Dr. Evie Rotstein, the Director of the Leadership Institute, and said that if she is to participate, she needs to be true to herself and to her commitment to multi-sensory education.  Forward-thinking, open-minded and intrigued, Dr. Rotstein agreed.

Jennifer arrived at the Institute’s two-week conference, armed with her drop-cloth, easel, paints and brushes and she set herself up at the back of the room.  Every day, from 8:30-5:30, Jennifer painted.  She put her brushes down during small group discussions, a format that works for her as a learner, to better immerse herself with her community of peers.  She became, as far as we know, the first individual to paint a Jewish conference.

Professor Norman Cohen presented a text study on Jacob and Esau in a lecture entitled, “An Essential Ingredient for Leadership: Making the Bible Come Alive through Midrash”.  Listening to such a wonderfully creative teacher unpack an extremely dense text, under normal circumstances, would have been extremely difficult for Jennifer.  Through painting, however, she was able to stay connected and engaged with Professor Cohen’s seminar and come away with a product that represented the main concepts of his teachings.  Through this process Jennifer was able to identify the big ideas from each lecture during the packed two-week program.  She was able to integrate it into her body, whereas in the past it would have gone in one ear and out the other. “Capturing the feeling of the main idea had a tremendous impact on me as a learner,” Jennifer said.   Now, she is able to refer back to the paintings, and those lectures come back to life.

At one point during the conference, everyone was asked to sit with paper and markers to illustrate their choice of texts.  As Jennifer got to work, she experienced a personal breakthrough.  Because of her Dyslexia and the struggles she needs to overcome on a daily basis, “I often feel inferior to my colleagues in an academic setting,” she says.  “And in this moment, I look at my colleagues and everyone around me is drawing stick figures!  Developmentally, I was way ahead of them!  It was such a pure moment of understanding multiple intelligences.  To have that experience as an adult learner will have a deep, deep impact on my work with students.  To be in that moment as a learner and have that experience – it was mind-blowing.”

Reflecting on the experience as a whole, Jennifer is incredibly grateful to the Leadership Institute for their open-mindedness and for trusting her enough to grant her unusual request.  Jennifer admits that at first she was nervous about what the other participants would think.  But using every opportunity in her own life to better understand her students, she gained a newfound appreciation for what children must feel like when they perceive themselves to be different from their peers.  Being allowed to learn in the ways that work best for her, however, Jennifer reports that she got so much nurturance and encouragement from the community, she understands on a whole new level the importance of multi-sensory education in every classroom.  “It is essential that students who may struggle in one area are given the opportunity to shine in another,” Jennifer says. “It’s a win-win for everyone.”

In her role as Education Director, Jennifer has cultivated a professional relationship with Matan in order to best meet the needs of all of her students.  The surprise for all of us, though, was the extent to which this partnership has benefited Jennifer as an individual.  “I have always been frustrated attending conferences and professional development programs.  In the past, I have agreed to participate in the usual ways, all the while assuming there was something wrong with me because I was overwhelmed by the information.  My work with Matan has made me much more aware of my own needs.  So when this conference opportunity came around, I thought I might as well ask!”

The final 45 minutes of each conference day were reserved for group reflection.  As is typical at the end of a long day of intense learning, participants were exhausted.  What Jennifer observed about herself, though, was that she was energized.  “I remember that feeling of being exhausted from all the work it took to just listen.  But this time, my body was active and alert and I was engaged in a creative process.  For me, that was the biggest take-away from this experience.  If our teaching style can actually give our students energy, we’re doing something right.”

For more information about Temple Emanu-El, please visit www.templeemanu-el.com.

To learn more about Matan and addressing the needs of all students, visit www.matankids.org.